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Confessions of a soft ghoster, the dating woman’s newest nemesis

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Another day, another form of online interaction to further complicate your already complicated dating life. Let's get right down to it: soft ghosting.

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It's not a name I care for and I very much doubt you care for it either. But the internet is a cesspit of names for a cesspit of things and, like VSCO girls and softboisthis is just another thing that we're going to have to learn to deal with.

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Soft ghosting appears to have been publicly coined on Overheard LAthe actually incredible Instagram which posts snippets of conversations that people have overheard IRL in Los Angeles. Things like " Did you just assume my milk preference? The soft ghosting post detailed an overheard conversation between two guys about presumably a date that went cold. View this post on Instagram.

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As you can see, soft ghosters, unlike hard? Your soft ghoster read that last message, they acknowledged that last message, but they didn't respond.

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It's the online version of going "hm". The soft ghoster has managed to achieve several things with their digital "hm", all of them in their favour; they've managed to perform a power grab so effective that Boris Johnson is taking notes.

The soft ghoster now has to do nothing while the other party agonises over whether to risk looking too keen and double texting or play it cool and decide that they're being fobbed off. Either decision has potentially catastrophic connotations for the future of this short-lived relationship.

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The soft ghoster, however, sleeps soundly that night, knowing that they have not been rude to the other party and that they can pick up the conversation whenever they fancy — if they fancy — at a time that is convenient for them. Sabrina, 28, admits to being a chronic soft ghoster. She first became aware of the power of the move when she was talking to a guy she says she knew fancied her and who she was into, but not enough to properly invest in conversation.

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The lack of guilt that comes with a soft ghost appeals to her. A few days later was the first time he called to 'see how I was' after months of him soft ghosting me.

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Sabrina says it makes her feel in control of a conversation that she doesn't necessarily want to be having. From her perspective, it's not usually a great for the continuation of an interaction.

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If her match does double text, she admits she gets a kick out of it. She's got no time for the tables being turned on her, though. Louise Troen, VP of international media and communications at Bumblesays that if you think you're being soft ghosted, it's important not to jump immediately to conclusions.

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However, in order to stop yourself becoming a serial soft ghostee, she recommends being clear and direct when moving forward. Some people do need a more clear call to action so ignoring the liked messages and diverting to a meeting to assess their seriousness is a good move.

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If they don't respond, then make like Sabrina and archive 'em — clearly they weren't worth your time and at least now you won't be left wondering if the conversation petered out over an avoidable miscommunication. Welcome to Summer Of Love: a new weekly column about how people are getting back into the dating game and getting it on post-lockdown.

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