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Montoya Major, 23, uprooted her entire life to move to Florida for a dual-degree program at Nova Southeastern University. Hours away from her family, friends, and any other physical support system, she knew the program would be difficult — but she never expected that she'd become pregnant just five months into it. Having kids was never a thought of mine.


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You never know how strong you are until being strong is the only choice you have.

The day I found out I was a single mom pregnant with twins, my life changed forever. I went to the appointment and surely I was pregnant. I was completely pissed because I had just ended my relationship and my son was only 6 months old. Then the unimaginable happened.

I went in for my first sonogram and the technician told me it was twins! Tears immediately streamed down my face. I asked her if she was serious. I knew she was because I saw it for myself but I just had to ask.

I was devastated!

I had just become a single mom of twins so fast my head was spinning. I went from having two kids to having four in three seconds. How is this even happening? So many questions ran through my mind. But more importantly I thought how am I going to take care of these babies by myself? Will I be able afford daycare?

Doing it solo: a single parent of twins story

At this point I was completely overwhelmed. I live in a condo though. I drive a two door coupe. The questions, the confusion it all had me exhausted. I was so disappointed in myself and disappointed in the choices I had made to get to this point. When I finally made it home I sat there on the couch crying. I cried for hours. I went to bed still in disbelief. But then something happened that morning.

Everything is going to be okay. You can do this and you can do it WELL. Know that you made the right decision and never second guess yourself.

You have to be confident in your ability to choose. Forgive yourself and move forward. Own your decisions, stand tall and handle your business.

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You will be able to give your children the life they deserve. You will be able to complete your goals and you will still be the amazing woman you are destined to be. You will have some sleepless nights. You will have to make some sacrifices and you will have to work your butt off to make it work. It will all be worth it. Reach out to the people that support you and will be there for you.

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That will come. You can build that support system along the journey. If you already have one, be prepared for that to change. You will be surprised at the people that get missing when life gets real. You will also be surprised at those that step up to support you when you most need it. Additionally, YOU be prepared to change. This experience will change who you are as a woman.

All in all, this can be done. Single moms with twins can thrive beyond their circumstances too. Keep the faith and stand strong. Being single is simply your current relationship status. That will change. All of your circumstances will change if you want them to. You get to decide whether you use this situation to hinder you or let it make you stronger. I pray you choose the latter. Use it as a reason to be better and go harder. This made me cry and smile at the same time. A single mother to twins myself I struggled to find someone that understood or knew exactly what I was going through.

Thank you for this post, it has encouraged me. I hope I can be as successful as you one day.

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Awww thank you Rachel. It can be hard but it CAN be done. Sending you good vibes and wishing you much success on you journey. Know that you got this!!!!

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Your babies are going to be a blessing. I am a single mother with two beautiful boys. I used to look at my life as if it was ending when I found out I was having twins and taking care of them on my own, but God has a purpose. He does everything for a reason. He has hold my hand through the risk of my pregnancy and he will continue holding my hand every step of the way.

Times will be hard but I will be strong and prepared for whatever gets thrown at me.

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God will never leave you nor forsake you. My ificant other even though in my life may or may not be physically there for me and our twins. Whether I have to do this on my own or not, I feel mom I can. And you can! There are so many resources available if you need them. Ask for help and use your support system. This is not an impossible task. If I can do it, so can you. Many blessings to you mama. Hey i just found out im having twins twin week i also have a four yr old girl me and her dad broke up and it just wont work even if we try our hardest plus he lives in holland and im single in ireland.

Thank u so much for that beautiful read cheered me right up. Just know everything will work out just fine. Best wishes to you, your daughter and your new bundle of joy.

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I would like to say thank you. For sharing your story. Especially with the father of my twins. So, this really brought relief to my soul and more strength that I need.

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Thank you again for sharing your story!? You will get through this!!! You and your babies first. Everything else next. I have many fears about it, and I realized a ificant one is judgment from my family and other people.

I really appreciate this empowering blog. Thank you so much. Hey nessa.